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Welcome to the Big Five for Life step by step guide!

I put this together in response to Big Five for Life fans who have read my books and asked for additional assistance bringing their Big Five for Life adventures to life.  The guide is arranged as a thirty day program.  You will have the greatest success if you make the commitment to yourself to follow it as such, and dedicate just a little bit of time each day over the next thirty days.   

If for any reason you are unable to do that, then complete the program as your time schedule allows.  

Let me share with you a little of what to expect as you complete the program.  The first group of steps are designed to help you figure out what your Big Five for Life are.  Many people have shared with me that determining their Big Five for Life has been a struggle.  And of course, it is very hard to start experiencing your Big Five for Life adventures if you don't know what your Big Five for Life are.  

Therefore, the first group of steps are designed to help you with that.

The remaining steps will then help you bring your Big Five for Life into reality.  

You’ll find the guide is easy to follow, and fun to do.  Probably the best piece of advice I can give you is just follow the steps.  Don’t get caught up in the process, or what will happen next, simply go through and let it evolve.  Think of it like using a cell phone.  When you want to make a call, you pick up your phone, you hit ten little buttons, and then you hit an eleventh button.  Now after that, do you really know what happens?  Can you describe the exact process of data packets being sent through routers and satellites and all the rest of what is going on in order for someone at another spot in the world to pick up their phone and have you on the other end?  Probably not.  But you still use your cell phone don’t you?  Even though you don’t know exactly how all the processes fit together and function?  Why?  Well, because it works right?  Same goes for this.  Trust the process, follow the steps, and let it work for you.  It will, I promise.  

As a matter of fact, feel to email me your success stories as you progress through the guide.  You can do that through the Big Five for Life website at http://www.bigfiveforlife.com/public/department6.cfm

I recommend using a dedicated journal or notebook to capture your thoughts and do the exercises as you go through the course.  That way you will have all your information in one place.  If you don't have a journal or notebook, just staple about 20 pieces of paper together and use that.  When you have completed each day, record your AHA! moments.  Those are the major insights or learnings that you acquired.  Record them by literally putting AHA- in your journal and then writing down whatever you learned.  

You will be going back to your AHA’s and using that method of recording them makes it easy to find them again later.

Welcome to the adventure, and congratulations on choosing to live an incredible life!

Go ahead and start with Day 1. 

Day 1 - Step by Step Guide
Today's exercise will help you gain clarity about your Big Five for Life. The exercises are simple to do, and ease you into the course by tapping into something you already know - like where you like to shop. . . . keep reading
Day 2 - Step by Step Guide
This exercise will amaze you in how such a simple concept can produce such insightful results. Get ready to explore what it is you truly want? . . . keep reading
Day 3 - Step by Step Guide
Let's open some new pathways in your mind. . . . keep reading
Day 4 - Step by Step Guide
In just three days you have learned an incredible amount about yourself and your Big Five for Life. It's time to start putting the pieces of the puzzle together. . . . keep reading
Day 5 - Step by Step Guide
We know so much about ourselves that we don't even know what we know. Time to tap into that wealth of insight with this exercise. What are your three favorite movies of all time? . . . keep reading
Day 6 - Step by Step Guide
Congratulations, you just won the lottery. What now? . . . keep reading
Day 7 - Step by Step Guide
Let's go back to our childhood. . . . keep reading
Day 8 - Step by Step Guide
This movie is a tremendous example of someone deciding on and then pursuing their Big Five for Life. As you will see, it is full of valuable lessons and takeaways which will help you with your Big Five for Life adventures. . . . keep reading
Day 9 - Step by Step Guide
Now that you've seen the movie, let's go over the important lessons from it. There are five in particular really worth remembering. . . . keep reading
Day 10 - Step by Step Guide
Now that you have gone through the different exercises, it's time to revise and update your Big Five for Life list. This technique will enable you to decipher the clues you've uncovered from your unconscious and translate them into Big Five for Life items. . . . keep reading
Day 11 - Step by Step Guide
Why ask why? Because as you will discover in today's exercise, that question is critical in helping you get to the root of what you truly want to do, see, and experience during your Big Five for Life adventures. . . . keep reading
Day 12 - Step by Step Guide
Are you a victim of the Good Times, Bad Times, Average Times trap? I've seen many people succumb to it and it kills Big Five for Life adventures. Today's exercise will show you how to avoid the trap. . . . keep reading
Day 13 - Step by Step Guide
Do you know where you are right now? Do you know where you want to go? Then what question do you need to ask? If you just responded "How do I get there?" then you my friend are suffering from "Mad How Disease." It's a good thing today's material has the antidote. . . . keep reading
Day 14 - Step by Step Guide
At this point your Big Five for Life list is complete, and you are ready to begin bringing them to life. In today's exercise I give you exactly what you need to have dozens if not hundreds of people help you. . . . keep reading
Day 15 - Step by Step Guide
Your Who's are everywhere! If you know where to look. This simple exercise will connect you with the right people to get you jump started with your Big Five for Life. . . . keep reading
Day 16 - Step by Step Guide
Once you find a great Big Five for Life resource, what do you do? What questions do you ask? In this exercise I give you the specific template to bring out the most from your conversation. All you need to do is dial the phone and follow the template. . . . keep reading
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